When I grew up, my maternal grandmother often talked about her younger brother, Erwin. He was born only a few years before World War I, so in his early childhood years during the war, he suffered immensely from the lack of food. Even though my grandmother shared her meager portion with him, he suffered severely from malnutrition. When he developed a kidney infection a few years later, his body was not resilient enough to fight the disease, and he passed away as a very young man.
My grandmother never overcame his passing. Even in her 90s, her eyes filled with tears when she talked about her younger brother—and so did mine. Growing up in a home where there was always plenty of everything, I simply could not imagine what it was like to be hungry and undernourished. How I wished I could have shared some of my plenty with Erwin or could simply do something for that hungry little boy.
Soon after I had joined the Church, I started to work on my family tree. For my father’s side of the family, research was very easy because of well-kept family records. For my mother’s side, however, research became very difficult because my grandmother’s house had been bombed during World War II. The family had lost all of their possessions, including their family records. I was able to identify the names of my grandmother’s parents, but there was no information on their children, including Erwin. Living a busy life like almost everybody today, I postponed further research to some later time in life.
Then, a few months ago, the Family History Department instructed us about the Find-Take-Teach process. When I was asked to work with the German stake indexing directors, I realized that I needed to increase my knowledge about the “Find” part of the process. A colleague sent me the link to Ancestry.de. Experimenting with the website, I searched for Erwin’s name, and there was one exact hit—his death record. I searched for his parents, and again, there was one exact hit—his parent’s marriage license, which included the names of their parents, my great-great-grandparents for whom, so far, I had no information. Within seconds, I had found five new names for my family tree.
I could not believe this success—I had not asked for help with my own tree or with my own research. The only thing I had asked was to learn how to find information in Germany. I never imagined that this simple question would trigger a reply that immediately led me to the names of five ancestors I could add to my tree. I was totally overwhelmed.
Because of this experience, I now have an unshakable testimony of the Find-Take-Teach approach. It seems that if we are willing to move just one inch toward finding our family members, the windows of heaven are opened immediately, and we are blessed with results in a way that is beyond our imagination.
I hardly can wait to take Erwin’s name to the temple and have my husband receive ordinances for him. Finally, after so many years, there is something I can do for a hungry little boy whose story touched me so deeply when I was a young girl.
